摘要：Many times, our judgment of a person depends on whether we can speak cautiously about uncertain things in our speech, not talk non

很多时候上，我们对一个人的判断，就在于言语交谈上能否对没把握的事谨慎说，没发生的事不胡说，别人的事多听少说。

Many times, our judgment of a person depends on whether we can speak cautiously about uncertain things in our speech, not talk nonsense about things that haven't happened, and listen more about other people's affairs and speak less.

再好的关系，说话也要注意分寸。

No matter how good the relationship is, one should also pay attention to speaking appropriately.

而靠谱的人会说话，不仅仅是情商高，更可以看出一个人的品行和修养。

And reliable people who can speak not only have high emotional intelligence, but also reflect a person's character and cultivation.

人在该说的时候要说，不该说的时候少说，这不止是说话的分寸，其实也是做人的分寸。

People should speak when they should and speak less when they shouldn't. This is not only a measure of speaking, but also a measure of being a person.

相处不越界，不侵犯别人的舒适区。

Get along without crossing boundaries or encroaching on others' comfort zones.

在说与不说之间，无不透露自己的情商与修养，与人坦诚，也对自己负责。

Between speaking and not speaking, one always reveals their emotional intelligence and cultivation, is honest with others, and takes responsibility for oneself.

来源：三月流焱