摘要：In the Book of Rites, it is said that the water is deep but the flow is slow, and people are precious but speak late.

俗话说：你说出什么样的话，你就是什么样的人。

As the saying goes, you are the person you say what you say.

要想知道一个人的人品、涵养，观察他的谈吐便可得知一二。

To know a person's character and cultivation, one can observe their speech to gain some insights.

《礼记》里讲：水深而流缓，人贵而语迟。

In the Book of Rites, it is said that the water is deep but the flow is slow, and people are precious but speak late.

一个真正有修养的人，往往谈吐干净，他们知道言语的力量，懂得顾及他人的感受。

A truly cultured person often speaks Cleanly, understands the power of words, and knows how to consider the feelings of others.

生活中，总有一些人自以为是，一口否认对方，以凸显自己的才能，然后以心直口快来为自己辩护。

In life, there are always some people who are self righteous and deny each other to highlight their talents, and then defend themselves with straightforward words.

常言道：说出去的话，泼出去的水。

As the saying goes, what is said is spilled water.

自己的口瘾解了，却伤害了别人。

My own addiction has been relieved, but I have hurt others.

好好说话，是一种负责任、有涵养的表现。

Speaking well is a responsible and cultured expression.

很多时候，话多不如话少，话少不如话好；说话前三思，话到舌边留半句，给人留一份体面。

Many times, speaking more is not as good as speaking less, and speaking less is not as good as speaking well; Think twice before speaking, leave half a sentence at the tip of your tongue to give people a sense of dignity.

谈吐干净，是一种风度，是不让他人尴尬的体谅，是刻在骨子里的涵养。

Clean speech is a kind of demeanor, understanding that does not embarrass others, and a cultivation engraved in one's bones.

来源：三月流焱