摘要：在这个纷繁复杂的世界里，人们常常在追求自我价值的实现与利益的最大化中迷失方向。然而，心理学中的利他定律却如同一股清流，提醒我们：真正的成功与幸福，往往源自于对他人的成全与奉献。

在这个纷繁复杂的世界里，人们常常在追求自我价值的实现与利益的最大化中迷失方向。然而，心理学中的利他定律却如同一股清流，提醒我们：真正的成功与幸福，往往源自于对他人的成全与奉献。

利他：成全他人，成就自我

“利他”，一个简单而深刻的词汇，它不仅仅意味着成全别人，让他人得好处，更是一种智慧与境界的体现。在利他的过程中，我们并非牺牲自我或忽视自我，而是通过生命的关联与互动，实现付出与收获的能量循环，从而建立起自身更大的价值。

想象一下，当你为身边的人带去快乐与幸福时，那份由衷的喜悦与满足感，不正是你内心深处最真实的幸福吗？同样，当你成全他人的成就与成功时，那份见证他人成长的骄傲与自豪，不正是你人生旅途中最宝贵的财富吗？

企业的兴衰：利他与利己的抉择

在商业世界中，利他定律同样发挥着举足轻重的作用。那些只追求短期利润、忽视客户与社会利益的公司，往往如昙花一现，很快便消失在市场的洪流中。而那些致力于为客户提供优质服务、为社会创造价值的公司，却能够经受住时间的考验，越做越大，越做越强。

以苹果公司为例，它之所以能成为全球科技行业的佼佼者，不仅仅是因为其创新的产品和技术，更在于它始终将用户体验放在首位，致力于为用户创造更加便捷、智能的生活方式。这种利他的理念，不仅赢得了用户的信赖与忠诚，也为苹果公司带来了持续的增长与繁荣。

利他定律的奥秘：提高他人，提升自我

在利他定律中，提高他人价值和提高自我价值，往往是同时发生的。当我们用心去帮助他人、提升他人时，我们的自我价值也在悄然提升。这是因为，在付出的过程中，我们学会了倾听、理解、包容与尊重，这些品质正是构成我们人格魅力与自我价值的重要组成部分。

正如一位优秀的教师，在传授知识、培养学生的过程中，不仅让学生收获了知识与技能，自己也从中获得了成就感与满足感，实现了自我价值的提升。这种“教学相长”的过程，正是利他定律的生动体现。

结语：利他，生命中最美的回馈

在这个充满竞争与挑战的时代，让我们铭记利他定律的智慧与力量。不要害怕付出，不要吝啬给予，因为每一次的利他行为，都是对自我价值的一次升华与重塑。让我们以一颗宽广的心胸、一份无私的情怀，去拥抱这个世界、去成全他人，相信在不久的将来，我们一定会收获生命中最美的回馈——那份由内而外的幸福与满足。

在利他的道路上，让我们一起前行，用爱与智慧点亮彼此的世界，共同书写属于我们的精彩篇章！

作者简介：梁世杰 中医高年资主治医师，本科学历，从事中医临床工作24年，积累了较丰富的临床经验。师从首都医科大学附属北京中医院肝病科主任医师、著名老中医陈勇，侍诊多载，深得器重，尽得真传！擅用“商汤经方分类疗法”、专病专方结合“焦树德学术思想”“关幼波十纲辨证”学术思想治疗疑难杂症为特色。现任北京树德堂中医研究院研究员，北京中医药薪火传承新3+3工程—焦树德门人（陈勇）传承工作站研究员，国际易联易学与养生专委会常务理事，中国中医药研究促进会焦树德学术传承专业委员会委员，中国药文化研究会中医药慢病防治分会首批癌症领域入库专家。荣获2020年中国中医药研究促进会仲景医学分会举办的第八届医圣仲景南阳论坛“经方名医”荣誉称号。2023年首届京津冀“扁鹊杯”燕赵医学研究主题征文优秀奖获得者。事迹入选《当代科学家》杂志、《中华英才》杂志。

The Law of Attraction: The Most Positive Gifts in Life

In this complex world, people often lose their way in the pursuit of realizing their own values and maximizing their profits. However, the law of altruism in psychology is a clearing that reminds us that true success and happiness often come from the fulfillment and devotion of others.

altruism: to enrich others and to accomplish myself

"altruism" is a simple and profound word, which means not only to enrich others and to benefit others, but also to represent wisdom and a state of affairs. In the process of altruism, we do not sacrifice ourselves or neglect ourselves, but through the connection and interaction of life, we realize the energy cycle of giving and reaping, thereby establishing our own greater value.

Imagine that when you bring joy and happiness to those around you, that true joy and satisfaction is not your deepest happiness? Similarly, when you accomplish the achievements and successes of others, isn't the pride and pride in witnessing their growth the most valuable asset in your life journey?

Business Rise and Fall: Choices for altruism and self-interest

In the business world, the law of altruism also plays a pivotal role. Companies that pursue short-term profits and ignore the interests of customers and society are often short-lived and quickly disappear into the flood of the market. And those companies that are committed to providing quality services to customers and creating value for society can withstand the test of time, becoming bigger and stronger.

Apple, for example, has become a leader in the global technology industry not only because of its innovative products and technologies, but also because it has always put the user experience first and is committed to creating a more convenient and intelligent lifestyle for its users. This altruistic philosophy not only earned the trust and loyalty of users, but also brought continued growth and prosperity to Apple.

The Mystery of the Law of Altruity: Raise Others, Raise Self

In the law of altruism, the improvement of the value of others and the improvement in self-worth often occur simultaneously. When we focus on helping others and enhancing others, our self-worth also quietly increases. That's because, in doing so, we learn to listen, understand, accept, and respect - qualities that make up an important part of our personality and our self-worth.

Just like a good teacher, in the process of imparting knowledge and cultivating students, not only does the students gain knowledge and skills, but they also gain a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction, and realize the improvement of their self-worth. This process of "teaching each other" is a vivid embodiment of the law of altruism.

Conclusion: altruism is the most rewarding thing in life

In these times of competition and challenge, let us remember the wisdom and power of the law of altruism. Don't be afraid to give, don't give sparingly, because every act of altruism is a sublimation and reshaping of self-worth. Let us embrace the world and empower others with a broad heart and a selfless spirit, believing that in the near future we will surely reap the most beautiful gift of life - the happiness and contentment from the inside out.

On the path of altruism, let us move forward together, light each other's worlds with love and wisdom, and write a wonderful chapter of ours together!

Author Bio: Liang Shijie is a senior medical practitioner in traditional Chinese medicine with an undergraduate degree. He has been engaged in traditional medicine clinical work for 24 years and has accumulated a wealth of clinical experience. Following Chen Yong, chief physician of liver disease at Beijing Traditional Medicine Hospital, affiliated with Capital Medical University, and renowned old Chinese medicine, he has been treated for many years and received great attention. He specializes in the treatment of difficult diseases using "conversational traditional therapy" and special treatments combined with the academic ideas of Jiao Shude and Guan Yubo's ten-level diagnosis.He is currently a researcher at the Shude Tang TCM Research Institute in Beijing, a fellow at the new 3 + 3 project of traditional Chinese medicine flame inheritance in Beijing - a scholar at the inheritance workstation of Jiao Shude's protégés (Chen Yong),He is a standing committee member of the International Expert Committee on E-learning and Health Care, a member of the Jiao Shude Academic Heritage Special Committee of the Chinese Association for the Advancement of Chinese Medicine Research, and the first cancer specialist to be included in the chapter of the Chinese Pharmaceutical Culture Research Association. Won the 2020 China Association for the Promotion of Traditional Chinese Medicine Zhongjing Medical Branch held the eighth session of the Medical Saint Zhongjing Nanyang Forum "Classic Prescription Famous Doctor" honorary title. The winner of the first Beijing-Tianjin-Hebei "Pingui Cup" Yanzhao Medical Research Essay Award in 2023. His work was featured in the journal Current Scientist and the journal Chinese Talent.

来源：首都专家梁世杰一点号