摘要：When you focus on problems, you'll have more problems. When you focus on possibilities, you'll have more opportunities.

It took me 7 years to understand this, I will teach you in 2 minutes:

1. The less you say, the more your words will matter.

2. Don't take everything personally. Not everyone thinks about you, as much as yourself does.

3. When you focus on problems, you'll have more problems. When you focus on possibilities, you'll have more opportunities.

4. No matter how much it hurts now, someday you will look back and realize your struggle changed your lite for the better.

5. There will always be a reason why you meet people. Either you need them to change your life or you're the one that will change theirs.

6. Never be afraid to try something new because life gets boring when you stay within the limits of what you already know.

7. The only person you have to face in the morning is yourself.

我花了七年才明白的道理，现在用两分钟告诉你：

1. 话说得越少，分量就越重。

2. 不要事事都往自己身上揽。没有人会像你一样时时刻刻在意你。

3. 你若总盯着问题，就会有更多问题；你若专注于可能性，就会迎来更多机会。

4. 无论现在有多痛苦，总有一天你会回头发现，这些挣扎让你的人生变得更好。

5. 你遇见每一个人，必然都有原因。要么是他们改变了你的人生，要么是你成为了他们的转折点。

6. 永远不要害怕尝试新事物。若你一直困在已知的边界里，生活便会失去光彩与趣味。

7. 清晨醒来时，你唯一必须面对的人，就是自己。

How to stop giving a fxck

Remember that everything in life is temporary.

Keep in mind that you're 1 out of 8 billion people.

Nobody actually gives a f*ck about you like that. They have their own lives.

Don't take criticism from someone you wouldn't take advice from.

如何学会不再过度在意：

记住，世间万物皆是暂时的。

别忘了，你只是八十亿人中的一个。

事实上，没有人会像你想象的那样，把全部注意力放在你身上——他们都有自己的生活要过。

不要在意来自那些你本不会寻求建议之人的批评。

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来源：涵柏教育