摘要：Firstly, being perfunctory in conversation. You share your daily life with great joy, but all you get in return are answers that a

当你在和他相处发现任何不舒服的时候就是重新审视这段关系的时候了。

When you feel uncomfortable at any time while getting along with him, it's time to reexamine this relationship.

一，说话敷衍。你满心欢喜地分享日常，换来的却是问东答西，那些漫不经心的回应，像一盆盆冷水，浇灭你的热情，让你在交流中只感受到疏离。

Firstly, being perfunctory in conversation. You share your daily life with great joy, but all you get in return are answers that are completely off the mark. Those careless responses are like basins of cold water, extinguishing your enthusiasm and making you feel nothing but alienation in communication.

二，不再陪伴。曾经的他，闲暇时刻总黏在你身旁，如今却总借口工作忙、应酬多。一个个落空的约会，一个个孤独的夜晚，他的缺席仿佛在宣告你的优先级已被后置。

Secondly, no longer accompanying you. He used to always stick by your side in his free time, but now he always uses being busy with work and having too many social engagements as excuses. One after another, the dates fall through, and on lonely nights, his absence seems to announce that your priority has been pushed back.

三，未来没有你。畅想未来时，买房、周游世界，他的蓝图里满满当当，却独独缺了你。那些原本该携手奔赴的美好，成了他一个人的规划，你被剥离出他的人生主线。

Thirdly, you're absent from his future. When imagining the future, like buying a house and traveling around the world, his blueprint is full of all kinds of things, yet you are the only one missing. Those beautiful things that were supposed to be achieved hand in hand have become his personal plans, and you have been excluded from the main line of his life.

四，不再正眼看你。往昔饱含爱意的目光消失不见，赞美之词更是干涸，你在他眼中仿若空气，毫无存在感，曾经的熠熠星光，如今黯淡无光。

Fourthly, he no longer looks at you directly. The affectionate gaze he had in the past has disappeared, and words of praise have dried up. You are like air in his eyes, with no sense of presence at all. The once shining star has now lost its luster.

五，哭穷借钱。经济上的窘迫偶尔提及尚可，但若频繁哭穷，甚至伸手向你借钱，把恋爱变成“借贷关系”，爱已在铜臭中变了味。

Fifthly, complaining about being poor and borrowing money. It's okay to mention financial difficulties occasionally, but if he frequently complains about being poor and even asks you for money, turning the romantic relationship into a "lending relationship", then love has been tainted by the stench of money.

六，对你的朋友冷淡。朋友是生活的延伸，爱屋及乌，他却漠视你的社交圈，不愿融入，态度不好甚至影响你与外界联系的纽带，让你愈发孤立。

Sixthly, being indifferent to your friends. Friends are an extension of life. Loving someone means loving those related to them, but he ignores your social circle and is unwilling to integrate into it. His bad attitude even affects the bond between you and the outside world, making you more and more isolated.

七，在你面前邋遢。从前的精致不复存在，邋里邋遢出镜，他不再在意你眼中的他，也不顾及你的。

Seventhly, being sloppy in front of you. The former refinement is gone, and he appears sloppy. He no longer cares about how he looks in your eyes and doesn't take your feelings into consideration either.

八，热衷社交不回消息。线上的他活跃非常，现实里却对你的消息视若无睹，沉浸社交狂欢，留你在等待中煎熬，他的世界已没有你。

Eighthly, being enthusiastic about socializing and not replying to your messages. He is very active online, but in reality, he turns a blind eye to your messages. Immersed in the social revelry, he leaves you suffering in waiting. There is no place for you in his world anymore.

当他把双人戏演成独角戏，让这些扎心场景一一上演，别为他找借口，赶紧逃离。

When he turns the two-person play into a one-person show and these heart-breaking scenes unfold one by one, don't make excuses for him. Just run away as soon as possible.

来源：麻辣小王子