摘要：A relationship that is not tiring to get along with, can make you feel calm and optimistic, and is the most nurturing.

一个人能走多远，要看他有谁同行；一个人有多优秀，要看他有谁指点；一个人有多成功，要看他与谁相伴。

How far a person can go depends on who is accompanying them; How excellent a person is depends on who guides them; How successful a person is depends on who they are with.

人的身心是一个完整的能量系统，很多病，外靠医，内靠养。

The human body and mind are a complete energy system, and many diseases rely on external medicine and internal nourishment.

什么样的关系最养人？

What kind of relationship nurtures people the most?

相处不累，能让你身心平静、乐观向上的关系最养人。

A relationship that is not tiring to get along with, can make you feel calm and optimistic, and is the most nurturing.

与自律的人相交：自律的人，对待一切事物都充满激情，踏实勤勉，会以积极主动的态度应对生活中的难题。

Interacting with self disciplined individuals: Self disciplined individuals approach everything with passion, diligence, and a proactive attitude towards life's challenges.

和他们在一起，整个人也会变得积极、阳光。

Being with them makes one more positive and sunny.

与谦卑的人相交：见多识广有本领的人，一定谦虚。

Interacting with humble people: Those who are knowledgeable and capable must be humble.

与之交往，能得到大格局的滋养，远离浮躁与骄傲。

Interacting with them can provide nourishment from a broader perspective and keep away from impatience and pride.

与靠谱的人相交：他们懂得换位思考，守时守信，未雨绸缪，凡事有着落，件件有交代，事事有回应。

Interacting with reliable people: They know how to put themselves in others' shoes, be punctual and trustworthy, be prepared for the future, have a clear plan for everything, explain everything, and respond to everything.

与之相处，既轻松，也放心。

Getting along with it is both relaxed and reassuring.

与敢批评你的人相交：遇到对你提出批评的人，能帮你削去自身多余的枝条，雕琢去自身的瑕疵，才能成长为更有价值的美玉。

Interacting with those who dare to criticize you: When encountering someone who criticizes you, being able to help you cut off your excess branches and carve out your flaws is the key to growing into a more valuable gem.

来源：三月流焱