摘要：就是我们有一个供应商，有一批不良品，放在我们这有一年以上，退货给他，他不要。叫他拿走，他不拿。我只能一次又一次的打电话，写邮件，发微信。价值有15万。就是每次说知道了，就是不处理。

你为什么话多？

首先，你喜欢话多还是话少的人？

我喜欢安静，我喜欢话少的人。但是我又是一个话多的人。

我分析了一下为什么会说话多？1、吹牛

就是说自己怎么怎么厉害，别人怎么怎么差劲？

2、抱怨

别人怎么亏待自己，自己怎么吃亏。

3、脑子混乱

自己也不知道自己在讲什么。

4、故意骂别人

真正厉害的人，话很少的。自己碰到一个事情，现在想想还脸红，感觉到不好意思：

就是我们有一个供应商，有一批不良品，放在我们这有一年以上，退货给他，他不要。叫他拿走，他不拿。我只能一次又一次的打电话，写邮件，发微信。价值有15万。就是每次说知道了，就是不处理。

终于过了一年半，对方质量主管终于答应由我们报废，他们赔偿。我跟总经理报告了，还顺带说了一下自己的辛苦，说怎样怎样终于搞定了。 我看到总经理外面的办公室的大秘，看了我一眼，笑而不语，赶紧闭上嘴巴，和总经理告别而出。

我用微信问大秘：好姐姐，刚刚我在总经理办公室汇报的时候，你笑什么？

大秘回我说：你可要保密奥，知道那个I厂商为什么终于答应赔偿那批货的15万了吗？你真以为是靠你啊？上次，董事长从台湾过来，总经理他们一起去拜访了对方总经理，董事长和对方总经理是朋友，董事长跟对方总经理说了这个事，要求尽快处理。

奥，原来是这样，我哪里知道呢？

半夜梦中惊坐起，浅薄竟是我自己！

人呢，还是要单纯点。

你没有本事，你不要搞太复杂，你那点水，人家瞧都不瞧，这就是圈子，这就是阶层，你夸你家的土豆多大，人家连熊掌都不想再吃了。

如果你没有本事，单纯一点，反而可以保护你，别人不要提防你。如果没有本事还喜欢吹牛，那是既让人好笑又让人讨厌，还要担心你瞎说八道暴露公司什么负面消息。

Why do you talk so much?

First of all, do you like people who talk a lot or those who talk little?

I like quietness and people who talk little. But I myself am a talkative person.

I analyzed why I talk so much. One reason is bragging, which means talking about how great I am and how bad others are.

2. Complaining about how others have treated you unfairly and how you have suffered losses.

3. My mind is in a mess. I don't even know what I'm talking about myself.

4. Intentionally abusing others

Truly remarkable people tend to be quiet. There was once an incident that I encountered myself. Even now, when I think about it, I still blush and feel embarrassed.

We have a supplier who has a batch of defective products that have been with us for over a year. When we tried to return them to him, he refused. We asked him to take them away, but he wouldn't. I have had to call him, write emails and send WeChat messages again and again. The value of these products is 150,000 yuan. Every time he says he knows, but he just doesn't deal with it.

After one and a half years, the quality supervisor of the other party finally agreed that we could scrap the goods and they would compensate. I reported this to the general manager and also mentioned my hard work, saying how I finally managed to settle it. I saw the general manager's secretary outside his office glance at me, smiling but saying nothing. I quickly shut up and said goodbye to the general manager before leaving.

I asked the secretary on WeChat: "Dear sister, why did you laugh when I was reporting in the general manager's office just now?"

The big boss told me, "You must keep this a secret. Do you know why that I company finally agreed to compensate 150,000 for that batch of goods? Do you really think it was because of you? Last time, the chairman came from Taiwan. The general manager and others went to visit the other company's general manager. The chairman and the other company's general manager are friends. The chairman mentioned this matter to the other general manager and asked for a prompt settlement."

Oh, so that's how it is. How could I have known?

In the middle of the night, I sat up in a start from my dream; how shallow I am!

People should still be simple and innocent.

You don't have the ability. Don't make things too complicated. Your little bit of water, others won't even take a look. This is the circle, this is the class. You brag about how big your potatoes are, others won't even want to eat bear paws anymore.

If you lack ability, being simple and straightforward can actually protect you. Others won't be on guard against you. But if you have no ability yet like to brag, it's both laughable and annoying. Besides, people will worry that your nonsense might expose some negative news about the company.

来源：讯驰外语xinchi