摘要：You said that during holidays, if you have time, you should go see the world more. He said that if you have time to spend your spa

网上曾有人发起一个投票：不论结婚还是交友，你觉得必要条件是什么？最终票数最高的是：三观相同，彼此理解。

Someone once initiated a vote online: What do you think are the necessary conditions for marriage or friendship? The final vote with the highest number of votes is: shared values and mutual understanding.

与一个不懂你的人相处的日常是什么样的？

What is the daily life like being with someone who doesn't understand you?

你说假期有时间就多去看看世界，他说有花那些闲钱的工夫，还不如在家睡觉。

You said that during holidays, if you have time, you should go see the world more. He said that if you have time to spend your spare money, it's better to sleep at home.

你说想学习一些新的事物提升自己，他说都一把年纪了何必再折腾自己。

You said you want to learn new things to improve yourself, but he said you're already old and there's no need to bother yourself anymore.

Robin Williams said:

我曾以为生命中最糟糕的事，就是孤独终老，其实不是。

I used to think that the worst thing in life was to die alone, but it's not.

最糟糕的是与那些让你感到孤独的人一起终老。

The worst thing is to end your life with those who make you feel lonely.

人生路迢迢，能遇上跟你合拍的人同行，就是人生一大幸事。

The road of life is long, and meeting someone who is compatible with you is a great blessing in life.

他懂你的经历、遭遇；他懂你欲言又止背后的沉默；他懂你身处喧嚣中的孤独。

He understands your experiences and hardships; He understands the silence behind your hesitation to speak; He understands your loneliness amidst the hustle and bustle.

相遇本就不易，相识更要好好珍惜。

Meeting each other is not easy, so we should cherish each other even more when we get to know each other.

来源：三月流焱