摘要：面对父母的生活方式，与其强行改变他们，不如接纳老一辈沉淀数十年的生活习惯；面对孩子成长中的岔路口，与其精密规划好每一步，不如适当放手，让孩子闯出自己的天地；面对爱人也是如此，不过分窥探，也不一味付出，给足彼此空间，相处才会舒服。

生活中，总有一些人打着“关心”的借口，打探别人的隐私，甚至干涉别人的生活。

In life, there are always some people who use the excuse of "caring" to inquire about others' privacy and even interfere with their lives.

那些超越“边界”的“为你好”，反而会导致彼此疏远。

Those 'good intentions' that go beyond the' boundaries' can actually lead to mutual estrangement.

每个人都有自己的人生，不能将自己的要求强加在他人身上。

Everyone has their own life, and one cannot impose their own demands on others.

试着去了解彼此的“边界”，这样才能互相理解，并营造出真正良好的关系。

Try to understand each other's' boundaries' in order to understand each other and create a truly good relationship.

面对父母的生活方式，与其强行改变他们，不如接纳老一辈沉淀数十年的生活习惯；面对孩子成长中的岔路口，与其精密规划好每一步，不如适当放手，让孩子闯出自己的天地；面对爱人也是如此，不过分窥探，也不一味付出，给足彼此空间，相处才会舒服。

Instead of forcibly changing the lifestyle of parents, it is better to accept the habits that have been accumulated by the older generation for decades; Facing the crossroads in a child's growth, instead of meticulously planning every step, it is better to let go appropriately and let the child explore their own world; The same goes for lovers, without excessive prying or blindly giving. Giving each other enough space is the key to a comfortable relationship.

降低控制欲，把握分寸感，才是对别人最好的尊重。

Reducing the desire for control and maintaining a sense of propriety is the best way to show respect to others.

来源：三月流焱