摘要：One friend later told her, “You didn’t solve my problems, but you made me feel heard.”

“Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.” — Stephen R. Covey

“大多数人不是带着理解的意图去倾听，而是带着回应的意图。” — 史蒂芬·柯维

Ella often noticed that people poured out their troubles to her.

埃拉常常注意到人们会向她倾诉烦恼。

Her secret? She truly listened—without interrupting or judging.

她的秘诀是什么？她真正倾听——不打断，也不评判。

One friend later told her, “You didn’t solve my problems, but you made me feel heard.”

一位朋友后来告诉她：“你没有解决我的问题，但让我感到被听见了。”

Ella realized listening itself could be a profound gift.

埃拉意识到，倾听本身就是一种深刻的礼物。

Sometimes, people don’t need solutions—they need a heart that understands.

有时候，人们不需要解决方案，他们需要一颗理解的心。

Summary: “Listening deeply is one of the greatest acts of love.”

总结：“深度倾听是最伟大的爱的行为之一。”

来源：宁宁课堂