摘要：For example, when a family member asks where something is, they can clearly say, "I don't know, you can look for it." But when the

如果你总是想要在言语上胜过对方，企图在说话的时候占上风。那么，最终的结果，一定会让你感到失望。

If you always want to surpass the other person in words and try to have the upper hand when speaking. So, the final result will definitely disappoint you.

因为，没有人喜欢和满腹戾气的人交往，也没有人愿意和一身棱角的人相处。

Because no one likes to associate with people who are full of hostility, and no one is willing to get along with people who are all angular.

比如：家人问东西在哪时，明明可以说“我不知道，你找找。”但一开口却是“你不会自己找？”

For example, when a family member asks where something is, they can clearly say, "I don't know, you can look for it." But when they say, "Can't you find it yourself

一个简单的陈述，就能给出答案，却非要带着讽刺，用反问句噎人。

A simple statement can provide an answer, but it must be accompanied by irony and choked with rhetorical questions.

这些反问，看似无心，实则伤人，反问多了，情也淡了，矛盾也多了。

These rhetorical questions may seem unintentional, but they actually hurt people. With too many rhetorical questions, emotions fade and conflicts increase.

语气柔和，表达诉求，说出期许，让家人感到被尊重和理解，爱意流动间，家才会越来越好。

A gentle tone, expressing demands and expectations, making family members feel respected and understood, and love flowing, will make the family better and better.

来源：一品姑苏城