摘要：your own bubble it's like we are a new unit，China's work culture，and most other cultures have a more stable work life balance，都有比较

中国男人有多难？看看外国的女人怎么说。

what are some green flags and red flags about Chinese men？

i came to the conclusion that Chinese men are the most stressed men in the world.

because from a young age they don't really have space to feel and express emotions.

they are very driven to work hard.

get good grades study well.

because they don't only have to think about their work.

they have to think about their partner.

their wife their girlfriend making their parents happy.

take care of their parents financially.

make sure their children have a good education.

making sure they should get to good school.

so they have stress coming from all different areas.

yeah because most other cultures it's like once you get married.

you kind of have your own space.

it's like we are a new space.

your own bubble it's like we are a new unit，China's work culture，and most other cultures have a more stable work life balance，都有比较稳定的工作生活平衡。

but China's work culture tends to be more hustle，culture，tends to be more work hard，讲究努力工作。

more competitive，竞争更激烈。

because they have so much stress and pressure in their lives，因为他们生活中有太多压力和负担。

they don't have a lot of practice of，他们没有太多机会。

like understanding their emotions，and being able to feel their emotions，and express their emotions，这可能会导致关系中出现些冲突。

they can cause some conflict in the relationship，especially like look at American culture，尤其是你看看欧洲文化。

European culture，人们经常通过哭来表达情绪。

like people are like crying all the time，they're like i love you，他们常常说我爱你。

like they just meet somebody like i love you，你是最棒的。

you're the best their emotions are everywhere，情绪都写在脸上。

sometimes not in the best way，有时候也不是最好的方式。

because from a young space，因为从小开始。

they don't really have，他们没有什么空间。

to feel and express emotions，去感受和表达情绪。

说到这里，我们不得不说中国的文化真的是博大精深，男人的难和困难的难同一个发音。

they are very driven to，他们被强烈驱动着要。

study well，好好学习。

because they don't only have to，因为他们不仅要考虑自己的工作。

they have to think，所以难字才发"男"音。还是因为中国男人难，所以中国的"难人"才发难音。

have a good education，能接受好的教育。making sure they can get into a good school，要确保他们能进一所好学校。

来源：戗詞奪理